We stopped at Wendy’s to have a our breakfast I had a chocolate chip muffin and a flat white
We had an early start that morning, as our flight to Cape Town was scheduled for 7:00 a.m. After completing check-in and passing through security without difficulty, we stopped for breakfast at Wendy’s, a quick-service restaurant. I ordered a flat white coffee, appreciated for its smooth texture, along with a blueberry muffin. There were limited sweet options available, and because of my autism, I find it helpful to alternate between sweet and savoury breakfasts each day to maintain a comfortable sense of balance.
As we were finishing breakfast, my brother and sister noticed the men’s rugby team in the terminal, easily recognisable in their distinctive green and gold team shirts. Naturally, they went over to ask for a photograph, while Mum and I browsed the airport boutiques. During our shopping, we found a lightweight rugby ball featuring the team logo and contacted the players to ask whether they would like one. They confirmed that they would, so we purchased two. We briefly considered having one inflated for use, but decided against it after airport staff advised that attempting to bring an inflated ball onto the aircraft would be at our own risk.
Taking Off to Cape Town
Once breakfast and shopping were complete, we proceeded to the departure gate to board our small regional aircraft. Boarding required me to climb a narrow set of steep steps, which was somewhat challenging but manageable with Mum’s support. The aisle inside the aircraft was also very confined, and as my seat was located near the rear, reaching it required additional care and effort.
The flight lasted approximately two and a half hours. During the journey, I passed the time by reading on my Kindle e-reader, resting briefly, and having a snack and drink purchased on board. The aircraft bathroom was extremely compact, which made it difficult to use comfortably, but I was able to manage.
Before long, we began our descent into Cape Town. As is often the case, I waited until the other passengers had disembarked before leaving the aircraft. Although this is not my preferred part of the journey, I understand that it is necessary for safety and assistance procedures. An airport assistant was waiting at the aircraft door to support me as I descended the steps, with Mum following closely behind.
My electric wheelchair was waiting at the bottom of the stairs; however, the batteries had not been fitted correctly, so it was not functioning as expected. As a result, Dad had to push me onto the bus that transported us to the terminal building. Once we arrived at the terminal, we were able to resolve the issue and get the wheelchair working properly again.
The Drive to Franschhoek
After collecting our hire car, which was the same spacious and comfortable SUV model we had used in Durban, we began the scenic two-and-a-half-hour journey to our next destination, Franschhoek. The town’s name translates from Afrikaans as “French Town,” reflecting its historic Huguenot heritage and distinctive cultural character.
The drive was exceptionally picturesque and offered striking contrasts, taking us through busy townships, expansive vineyards, and gently rolling countryside. On arrival, I was immediately impressed by the elegance and charm of the town. Franschhoek is renowned for its attractive streets, historic Cape Dutch architecture, and celebrated wine estates. We were particularly looking forward to experiencing the well-known wine tram and bus tours, which would later become one of the most memorable highlights of the trip, second only to the safari.
Arriving in our new home for the next couple of days
I had the creamy seafood pasta
That evening, we prepared to celebrate Jack’s birthday. We went out to a well-reviewed local restaurant, and I treated everyone to the meal as my gift to him. I ordered the seafood pasta, which looked delicious with fresh calamari and prawns, but it turned out to be a bit too creamy for my taste — I couldn’t finish it, but I still enjoyed the lively atmosphere and seeing everyone happy.
This is our room Desk area
After dinner, we returned to our room to rest. It had been a long but exciting travel day — from the early morning flight to the stunning arrival in Cape Town, it truly felt like the start of another chapter in our South African adventure.
Mini fridge (please note you have to pay if you have anything out of this fridge it’s not free)Bathroom Bath salts and other bathroom products
Rest and recovery in Franschhoek
A slow morning
As I was feeling somewhat unwell, I chose to take a slower approach to the day and prioritise proper rest. While the rest of the family prepared for outdoor activities, including hiking and kayaking, I remained in bed for a little longer to give my body the time it needed to recover.
Dad kindly brought me a freshly baked cheese muffin from the bakery next door. It was still warm, soft, and filled with melted cheese, making it a welcome and comforting option after I had missed breakfast earlier in the morning. At times, the simplest foods can provide the greatest comfort, particularly when one is not feeling completely well.
Adventure time for the rest of the family
The views from the horses
While I remained at the accommodation to rest, the rest of the family spent the day taking part in outdoor activities, including horse riding along scenic trails and quad biking at a local adventure park surrounded by lush greenery.
When they returned, I was interested to learn that the horse Ruby had ridden had reportedly been used during the filming of Racing Stripes, a well-known family film about a zebra aspiring to become a racehorse. Some of the other horses involved had also appeared in television commercials for popular brands. Although the guide was unable to share many details, likely due to confidentiality around behind-the-scenes information, this connection made the experience feel even more noteworthy.
A simple dinner
By the evening, I was still not feeling well, so I chose a simple and manageable dinner: a modest serving of crisp, lightly salted French fries. While eating, I spent some time reading the Scope online community page on my mobile phone .
The Scope online community offers a supportive platform for discussion, shared experiences, and connection with others who may be navigating similar health-related circumstances. Membership is free, and further information is available at forum.scope.org.uk/discussions.
After dinner, I took my medication, enjoyed a quick cup of tea, and went straight to bed. I wanted to rest as much as possible before the following day’s Wine Tram tour through the picturesque vineyard region.
What I learned today
A memorable travel day does not always require a full itinerary of activities. At times, a quieter day centred on nourishing food, peaceful surroundings, and meaningful companionship can provide exactly the restorative pause needed for the body and the soul.
Well let’s start with the top 3 tourist attractions in Cape Town and how you can make Cape Town accessible for your visits. As I eventually want this to be an accessible blog one day.
Boa-kap
These are what the houses look like see what I mean by they are colourful
Bo-Kaap is one of the most vibrant neighbourhoods in South Africa because it’s so colourful. The culture here is mostly made up of Muslim religion and Cape Malay Community. Did you know that the houses were made white and was painted colourful to celebrate the war ending in South Africa.
I would recommend getting your taxi driver to drive your way up here instead of planning a whole excursion out of this attraction as there’s no point. Alternatively if you have a car you can take yourself to go and see the colourful houses and the best thing is that you don’t have to get out the car. Which makes it even better for us who have wheelchair accessible need, invisible disabilities and people who are neurodivergent people because you don’t even have to get out the car. Tune into later on in the series though to hear about what our journey to see the neighbourhood was like.
Cable Car to the top of Table Mountain
This is the Cable car we went up in to get to the top of Table Mountain
While Boa-Kap neighbourhood community is on the way to Table Mountain it would make sense to talk about this attraction next.
The reason why it’s called Table Mountain is because when there’s clouds covering the mountains it looks like a table cloth when the clouds covering mountains so that’s why it’s called Table Mountain. It’s near a mountain called Lions Head which you can hike up as well as Table Mountain but be careful if you are hiking up I recommend taking a guide or just going up in the cable car is the best way too get too the top.
How to do this excursion if you have a disability?
My number one advice is to get there as early as possible to avoid queuing because the queues are very long. You might be waiting a while so my advice would to book your ticket online beforehand because the queue for online bookings normally go down quickly. As well as this you can get a discount on your ticket and I think a carer goes free as well.
The actual cable car is quite large but they try to fit as many people as possible in the cable car as they can to avoid people waiting and long lines. Due to this it does feel kind of squashed in there but it’s for a matter of minutes until you are at the top of the mountain anyway. I just wanted to make people aware of this to prepare those of you who are neurodivergent and don’t like crowds to be prepared but the views from the top can be awesome if you get it with no cloud on top. There’s a coffee shop, cafe and gift shop on top of the mountain which you can go to get away from the cold because it’s freezing at the top of the mountain so wrap up warm take extra layers because you never know when you might need them.
Cape Point of good Hope
I would highly recommend that you get a picture next to the sign
The Cape of Good Hope is where the Atlantic meets the Indian Ocean. It was originally named the Cape of Storms and was later named the Point of Good Hope to attract more tourists to Cape Point and to give hope to anyone who visits this attraction.
People who come to visit Cape Point normally visit the lighthouse as well. They normally hike up to the lighthouse so it’s not accessible for people in a wheelchair so just be aware of that before going up there. If you are able to get out your wheelchair then you might be able to manage it. Which brings me onto the next section which is all about accessibility so this is something i will talk about in the next section.
Accessibility at Cape Point
The Flying Dutchman funicular is wheelchair- accessible as there is ramps to get on and off the funicular is easy. Be aware though that it can be a long wait though to get on the funicular as we didn’t get to the front of the queue this time as it was busy. We were only there for about 15 minutes though so not too long to wait which is good for people like me who have autism or another neurodivergent condition or someone that struggles waiting.
Once at the top there’s no disabled toilet I had to use the normal female toilets so it was just so you were aware. There’s also a museum to have a look at when you get on and off the funicular if you fancy. Be aware of the operating times as I don’t want anyone to get stuck at the top of the summit with no way of getting down that’s all.
Exhausted from two days of travel and limited sleep during the flight, I took a prolonged rest. By 8:30, I was not yet prepared for breakfast; therefore, I began the day with a notable choice: my first South African rusk accompanied by a cup of rooibos tea. Rooibos, a traditional South African beverage, is the only herbal tea that can be traditionally enjoyed with milk. In the United Kingdom, it is commonly referred to as red bush, and most Britons do not add milk; however, here it is customary.
Travel Tip: If you visit South Africa, you should try rusks. These are similar to a thick, crunchy biscuit, ideal for dunking in tea. It is advisable to immerse them in a cup of tea or a glass of milk, as their hardness can pose a risk of breaking teeth if not handled carefully.
If you visit South Africa, you should try rusks. These are similar to a thick, crunchy biscuit, ideal for dunking in tea. It is advisable to immerse them in a cup of tea or a glass of milk, as their hardness can pose a risk of breaking teeth if not handled carefully.
PJ Day & Big Kid Summer
We arranged a leisure day at the villa, which was more like a small apartment. This activity also contributed to my Big Kid Summer badge with the Rebel Badge Club—an experience I would recommend to adults with available time. Participation is open to individuals outside of Girlguiding or Scout organizations, enhancing its appeal.
Getting Ready for a Braai
By mid-afternoon, preparations were made for an evening gathering characteristic of South African tradition: a braai. Unlike standard barbecues, a braai is regarded as a cultural specialty. The mother and father provided the meat, while Auntie Debbie took responsibility for the remaining arrangements.
Prior to departing, we visited Checkers, a large supermarket chain, to grab supplies. Upon returning to the villa, some individuals attended to personal grooming while others utilized the minibar for refreshments. I initially assumed the minibar was complimentary, influenced by the travel vlogs I had previously watched; however, I later discovered that it was not. Fortunately, my father did not object, as we were on an adventure holiday to South Africa.
Visiting Mum’s Old House
Prior to departing, we visited Checkers, a large supermarket chain, to grab supplies. Upon returning to the villa, some individuals attended to personal grooming while others utilized the minibar for refreshments. I initially assumed the minibar was complimentary, influenced by the travel vlogs I had previously watched; however, I later discovered that it was not. Fortunately, my father did not object, as we were on holiday.
✦ Travel Tip: When visiting family abroad, inquire about their place of upbringing. Doing so enhances the personal significance of the trip.
Family Dinner at Auntie Debbie’s
Upon arriving at Auntie Debbie’s residence, it was necessary to contact her to open the gate. This procedure is customary in South Africa, as most homes are equipped with security gates. Such a practice contrasts with the United Kingdom, where most houses lack such security features.
Upon arriving at Auntie Debbie’s residence, it was necessary to contact her to open the gate. This procedure is customary in South Africa, as most homes are equipped with security gates. Such a practice contrasts with the United Kingdom, where most houses lack such security features.
I spent some time outdoors with others; however, as the temperature decreased, I moved indoors with my siblings and cousins while my mother and Debbie concluded their meal.
As I am unable to balance a plate on my knees, the adults elected to dine at the formal table indoors rather than outside. They acknowledged that the table is not typically used, leading me to believe I reactivated the dining room for its intended purpose.
Dinner was amazing: my first boerewors roll, plus steak and salads (including a proper potato salad). For dessert, we had doughnuts — mine was filled with milk tart (a South African classic), and me and mum shared a plate me I washed it down with a cuppa, scrolled through social media for a bit, and let the adults chat.
Wrapping Up the Day
Upon returning to the villa, I was thoroughly exhausted. I administered my prescribed bedtime medication, enjoyed a concluding cup of tea, and retired directly to bed.
That concludes Day 1 in South Africa. Please stay tuned for updates, as tomorrow we will visit Durban’s renowned aquarium.
Today was a relatively quiet day, allowing me the opportunity to rest and relax around the villa. Meanwhile, my father, Jack, Daisy, and Ruby attended the cinema to celebrate my brother’s birthday. They watched the latest Marvel film, and to our surprise, the cost of four tickets was only 800 rand. This is significantly more affordable than the cinema experience in the United Kingdom.
Travel Tip: Attending the cinema in South Africa often offers a more cost-effective experience compared to the United Kingdom or continental Europe. For those seeking an economical activity, particularly on a day of leisure, it is advisable to consult local listings to identify suitable options.
While the others went shopping afterwards, having kindly agreed to look for new pyjamas for me, I took the opportunity to enjoy some quiet and restorative time at the villa.
Rest days are essential during longer trips, as they provide an important opportunity to recover, recharge, and fully appreciate the more active and eventful days that follow.
Dinner by the sea
In the evening, we went to Spur for dinner, a well-known family-friendly restaurant chain that is popular throughout South Africa. I chose calamari and chips, which I thoroughly enjoyed, and our table offered a pleasant view of the ocean.
The meal held particular significance for Mum, as she had worked at Spur as a waitress many years earlier. Dining there together felt like a meaningful opportunity to revisit a small part of her past, while enjoying time with family in a coastal setting.
Travel Tip: Spur is a suitable casual dining option for families, offering a varied menu and, in some coastal locations, attractive ocean views. It is a practical choice for a relaxed yet enjoyable meal after a relaxing day in the villa.
Day 10 – A Day of Rest, Retail, and Farewells in Durban
Granola and yogurt
The day began quietly, at a noticeably more measured pace than usual, offering a welcome opportunity to unwind and enjoy some well-earned rest. As Daisy had a medical appointment at a nearby clinic that morning, we remained at the villa and made the most of the calm surroundings until her return.
Breakfast was served outdoors on the balcony, with views overlooking the bright blue ocean. The gentle coastal breeze and warm sunshine created a peaceful and restorative start to the day. I enjoyed a bowl of creamy granola topped with ripe strawberries and blueberries, finished with a drizzle of golden honey; it was simple, fresh, and thoroughly enjoyable.
Shopping and simply joys
After breakfast, I prepared for an afternoon of shopping at the busy mall located only five minutes from the villa. Once Daisy’s appointment had finished, we set off together.
I visited a range of shops in search of comfortable long-sleeved pyjamas, having quickly discovered how cool the evenings could become by the ocean.
I also visited a small local bookstore situated within a charming older building. There, I found an attractive adult colouring book featuring detailed nature designs. Dad kindly bought me a set of bright colouring pens to accompany it, a simple but thoughtful gesture. It reminded me that some of the most meaningful travel moments can come from quiet creativity, shared kindness, and time to relax.
Lunch at Circus Circus
Biggest pixels. I ever seen in the world. I also had a milkshake which was delicious This was the milkshake I had with my meal
Our original plan was to visit Nando’s for a quick bite, but instead, we decided to try Circus Circus, a lively South African restaurant chain known for its bold flavours and cheerful atmosphere.
The restaurant was bright and colourful, full of energy and the smell of good food. I ordered a Ferrero Rocher iced latte, topped with whipped cream and crushed chocolate — absolutely decadent! For my main, I had a prawn paella, rich with saffron rice, juicy prawns, and a zesty sauce that lingered beautifully.
Travel Tip: When travelling abroad, try local restaurant chains instead of only international ones. They often serve unique dishes and give you a real taste of local food culture.
An evening at Lords and Legands
After some rest back at the villa, we prepared for the evening: a farewell dinner with family at Lords and Legends, a lively restaurant and bar known for its warm atmosphere, music, and sociable setting.
We were initially seated outdoors beneath the fairy lights, but moved inside once the evening breeze became cooler. I began with a Diet Coke, which felt like a sensible choice while I was not feeling my best, before later joining everyone with a colourful cocktail made with vodka, fruit juice, and soda. It was a pleasant way to mark our final family evening in South Africa.
For dinner, I chose a grilled chicken wrap filled with salad and a tangy dressing. The portion was very generous, requiring a knife and fork to manage, but it was fresh, flavoursome, and satisfying: a balanced combination of lighter ingredients and a hearty meal.
As the evening came to an end, I began to feel unwell again, so we said our goodbyes and made our way out. Uncle Barry accompanied us to the car park with his familiar broad smile and lively conversation. It took some gentle encouragement before he finally let us leave, as he clearly wanted to make the most of our final evening together.
My wrap was the biggest wrap I had ever seen I couldn’t eat it all I only managed to eat half and left the rest because it wasn’t very nice
Evening Reflection
Upon returning to the villa, I had a warm drink with my medication to help ease my symptoms before going straight to bed.
It had been a long yet meaningful day, marked by family connections, enjoyable food, and simple comforts. It was the kind of day that gently reinforces why goodbyes can be so difficult: because the memories created are deeply memorable experience
Day 11 – A Quiet Day in Durban: Rest, Recovery, and a Little Adventure
Photos from the day
The day began at a slower pace, as I was not feeling my best and we decided that I should remain at the villa to rest. We attempted to arrange a doctor’s appointment, but when Auntie Debbie contacted the surgery, she was advised that the matter could be managed over the phone.
She kindly collected a sample pot for me and returned it to the doctor’s surgery, where a test was carried out. Unfortunately, the results confirmed that I had a urinary tract infection. The doctor prescribed dissolvable antibiotics, which were a practical solution given that I find swallowing tablets difficult. To my relief, they were much easier to take than expected.
Auntie Debby to the rescue
While Mum stayed at the villa to look after me, Auntie Debbie kindly took care of the practical arrangements, including delivering the sample, running errands, and collecting the prescribed antibiotics. Her support was invaluable that day.
When she returned, she joined us for lunch. We checked whether the on-site restaurant was open, but after navigating several flights of stairs, we discovered that only the pizza outlet was operating.
As I had already eaten a considerable amount of pizza during the trip, soup felt like a more suitable choice. Mum read through the options, and I chose butternut soup; however, we accidentally received biltong soup instead. Although it was not what I had expected, I decided to try it as part of the South African experience.
Unexpectedly, it was very enjoyable, turning a simple mistake into a pleasant surprise.
Meanwhile on the zip wire
While I was recovering, Dad, Jack, Daisy, and Ruby took part in one of the most adventurous activities of the trip: completing the largest zipline in South Africa.
Daisy, being particularly adventurous, chose to take on the most extreme option. I enjoyed seeing their photographs appear in our family WhatsApp group, The Armstrong’s African Adventures. Although I was unable to join them, seeing how much they enjoyed the experience made me feel connected to the activity in my own way.
It is not an activity I am able to do because of my physical disabilities, but I was genuinely pleased that they had the opportunity to experience it. Sharing in their excitement through photographs and stories helped me feel included, even from the villa.
Ending the day together
When everyone returned, we were once again reunited at the villa. It was a welcome opportunity to come together, exchange accounts of the day’s activities, and enjoy the reassurance and comfort of one another’s company.
Although I had been unwell, the day served as a meaningful reminder of how fortunate I am to be surrounded by such thoughtful, caring, and supportive family members.
Rest, comfort, and family support gave the day its own quiet significance, demonstrating that even the calmest and most restorative days can become an important part of a journey.
Day 12 – Farewell Durban: A Family Braai and Birthday Before Cape Town
This day marked the conclusion of our time in Durban, as we prepared to travel to Cape Town the following day. Having not visited the city for several years, I was looking forward to rediscovering it and experiencing it again with a fresh perspective.
I spent the morning resting and focusing on recovering from the illness that had affected much of the trip. As I was still not feeling at my best, and as we also needed time to pack, we decided to remain at the villa for the day. I also managed to finish my book, which gave me a welcome opportunity to choose a new one for the next flight.
A Cosy Braai and family catch-up
Rather than visiting Auntie Debbie’s home for dinner, she came to the villa for a braai, bringing salad, drinks, and several thoughtful gifts, including a lovely T-shirt printed with “Durban”.
While Dad and Elle prepared the fire, Mum and Auntie Debbie spent time reflecting on their childhood memories. It was very moving to see them together again after such a long time. Although Mum had surprised her a couple of years earlier for her 50th birthday, this occasion felt particularly special.
Dad enjoyed some wine and beer on our last day in Durban
As the braai continued, I chose a simple meal of boerewors and salad, avoiding heavier carbohydrates as I was still not feeling fully well. This also felt sensible given that we had an early start the following morning for our flight to Cape Town the colourful capital of the world.
The last South African Brai made by family
Jack’s Birthday Celebrations
Jack’s birthday cake
Although I was still not feeling at my best, I was determined not to miss Jack’s birthday celebration. After everything we had shared during our time in Durban, it felt important to be present for one final family occasion before we travelled on to Cape Town. We gathered around the table with the birthday cake ready, the atmosphere warm, relaxed, and full of anticipation. In typical fashion, I casually mentioned that I would have my slice later with my medication, without realising that I had inadvertently revealed the cake before the surprise had properly unfolded. Mum quickly leaned in and whispered, “Shhh!” — and in that instant, I realised I had accidentally spoiled the moment.
It was a small, unintended moment, but it also reflected something very real about neurodiversity. Sometimes thoughts are spoken before there is time to filter them, and unexpected honesty can slip out at exactly the wrong moment. While it made me laugh afterwards, it also reminded me that being autistic is not something I would ever want to change. It is part of who I am: the way I notice details, the way I connect events together, the way I experience family moments intensely, and the way I bring my own perspective into every situation. Even when things do not go perfectly to plan, those differences are part of what make life memorable.
One of the most memorable parts of the evening came when Auntie Debbie’s son brought out his guitar and played “Happy Birthday” for Jack. It was a simple gesture, but it transformed the celebration into something deeply personal and heartfelt. Everyone joined in, voices overlapping with laughter, music, and the familiar warmth of family gathered together. Afterwards, we continued with our family’s traditional “knotapip hooray!” — our Afrikaans way of saying hooray — which made the moment feel even more connected to Mum’s South African roots. Jack then made the first cut of the cake and paused to make his birthday wish, bringing the celebration to a gentle and meaningful close. It was not a grand or extravagant occasion, but it was sincere, intimate, and full of love — exactly the kind of memory that stays with you long after the candles have been blown out.
Goodbyes and gratitude
Photo of me and Auntie Debbie together for the last time but I always keep a poloald picture in my bag as a memory of South Africa
After the cake had been shared and the laughter had settled, the evening reached its most difficult moment: saying goodbye. I told Auntie Debbie that, next time, it would be her turn to visit us in the United Kingdom, hopefully within the next year or two. Although it was said lightly, the promise carried genuine meaning, as none of us wanted the time together to end.
Before she left, I was able to capture a Polaroid photograph of the two of us together. It was a small but precious keepsake from the evening, and one I know I will continue to treasure as a reminder of our time in Durban and the family memories we created there.
Once everyone had left, the villa became quiet again and we turned our attention to the final preparations for the next stage of the journey. We finished packing the last of our belongings, making sure everything was ready for the early start ahead. I then had a comforting cup of tea and a slice of birthday cake with my medication before getting into bed, tired but grateful for the meaningful family evening we had shared.
The following day would bring a new chapter of the adventure, as we prepared to leave Durban behind and travel onwards and upwards to Cape Town.
Travel TipWhen travelling while managing a chronic illness or disability, it is important to allow yourself time to rest when your body needs it. Itineraries can be adapted, activities can be rescheduled, and periods of quiet recovery can often become some of the most meaningful and memorable parts of the journey.
Today was the big day — safari day! Not just any safari either, but a 5-star luxury safari at mFulaWozi Wilderness, staying at Mthembu Lodge. The reserve borders Hluhluwe–Imfolozi, the second-oldest game reserve in the world (after Yellowstone in the USA).
We packed up the car after breakfast — porridge with honey, nuts, and raisins for me (trying to be healthy before the adventure 北). There was no popping back for forgotten toothbrushes this time; we had to be out by 10 sharp.
I had porridge for my breakfast before hitting the road to safari
On the way, we stopped at Checkers for “Scooby snacks” and treats for the staff, then hit the road properly. The drive was long, bumpy, and full of potholes — like something straight out of Top Gear. Our travel agent’s route was clearly outdated, and with a few extra toilet stops, we arrived an hour late. I was desperate for the loo, so I made a beeline for the gate bathroom while Dad filled out the paperwork.
🏡 Arrival at Mthembu Lodge
We transferred from the hire car into a safari truck — yes, even my electric wheelchair was loaded in (though I didn’t end up needing it). The drive from the gate to the lodge was a mini game drive in itself — nearly an hour of pure off-roading, splashing through streams and spotting wildlife along the way.
This was the Gate to Mtemba Lodge We were on our way and we spotted some animals it was like we were already on a drive before it all began
At last, we pulled into Mthembu Lodge, greeted by staff with hot towels (my brother thought they looked like cinnamon rolls; I thought spring rolls) and a warm shot of hot chocolate. Just what we needed after the long journey.
After a quick safety briefing (“signing our lives away,” as I called it), we tucked into a late lunch — feta and butternut salad, quiche, and ribs. I went for two quiches (less messy!) and a perfect little crème brûlée for dessert, followed by a much-needed coffee.
This was the lunch I had: quiche and butternut and feta cheese salad for lunch as I didn’t want to risk having the ribs. As they would be too messy for me All washed down with a nice lattes
First Game Drive
At 4 o’clock, it was time for our first family game drive. Because of my disability, I sat up front with our guide, Njabulo — equal parts nerve-racking and exciting!
MThe first animal we spotted? Impala. (Not “McDonald’s,” as I joked.) Their sleek, caramel-brown coats were stunning in the late-afternoon sun. Njabulo turned out to be a keen birdwatcher, which was perfect since my grandad is one too — we all joined in with his bird book, identifying species as we drove.
As the sun dipped, we stopped for sundowners. Out of the back of the truck came an entire bush bar: Coke Zero, Appletiser, beer, vodka, and Amarula — South Africa’s answer to Baileys. With nibbles in hand, we toasted our first day in the bush.
After dark, the spotlight came out. For me, it made all the difference — with my visual impairment, I could actually see the animals better under the beam than in daylight! The only downside? The chill. ❄️ My sister needed the loo too, so we headed back to the lodge.
This was the bedroomThis was the livingareaThis was the coffee station This was the bathtub and the outside shower This was the sink area in the room and the toilet was tooked away around the side. This was my starter saladI had curry with rice and papadams with salsa and chutneys on the side to go with the curry.I had apple crumble for pudding
23rd July – Safari, Spa & Special Supper
Early Morning Safari
Agh — is it that time already? Yep, 5 o’clock! Mum woke me up, and I quickly got dressed in my safari gear. I was wide awake well before the official 5:30 am wake-up call.
This is what the spread looked like because I didn’t get a photo of the spread I wish I did though.
We headed to the dining area, where there was a spread of coffee, tea, juices, fruit, granola, cookies, and rusks. I had mine with my medication to kickstart my body and brain. After that cuppa, I thought, better use the loo — what goes in must come out! By 6:00 am, I was ready to roll.
This is an up- close photo of the truck.
Climbing into the safari truck, I felt excited, cold, and nervous all at once. Luckily, they had blankets and hot water bottles — yes, hot water bottles! Each of us got one, and I tucked mine under my blanket, making my lap cosy and warm.
Sunrise in the bush
As the sun rose, the chill faded and layers came off. Before our mid-morning stop for a cuppa and sweet treat, we’d already spotted some incredible wildlife: • A woodland kingfisher — red bill, pale chest, and bright blue wings. • A pair of glossy starlings, perched together on a branch. • A herd of African buffalo, resting and grazing in the bush.
A small dazzle of zebra, perfectly framed by the golden grass. • And the star of the drive — a cheetah, sleek and stunning out on the open plains.
The star of the show is the cheetah
By around half nine, we were back at the lodge, hungry and ready for breakfast and I was already inspecting the menu
Hot breakfast menu is offered to us every day.
Breakfast and spa booking
After collecting my medication, we proceeded to the dining area. Typically, we occupied either the outdoor space at the long table or the indoor table at the rear, which accommodated all six of us. I desired a warm meal, so I ordered the Uphilli — a dish consisting of smashed avocado, feta cheese, and raw tomato, topped with two poached eggs. It was exceptional.
This was my breakfast
During our meal, a representative from the spa approached us with menus. I was impressed to see they offered a thirty-minute foot massage, a service rarely available in the United Kingdom unless accompanied by a full pedicure. It is unfortunate, as a simple foot massage is highly beneficial.
The services offered included back-and-shoulder massages, facials, manicures, and pedicures. When the therapist returned later to schedule appointments, I registered my interest in a back-and-shoulder massage as well as a foot massage.
Travel tip It is advisable to schedule intervals of rest between significant endeavors, as this allows for improved enjoyment and effectiveness through adequate rejuvenation.
Spa season with a twist
At the reception, we completed consultation forms before proceeding to the spa, which consisted of a series of traditional African rondavels. Unfortunately, I encountered a difficulty entering the space due to the low doorway. My mother attempted to assist, but entry was ultimately not possible.
This is what a Rondavel but lo
Alternative arrangement: relocate my treatment to our designated room. While awaiting my turn, our courteous bartender, Doctor, provided us with water, and we relaxed by the pool until it was my appointment.
Relaxing by the pool while I wait for my appointment to see my spa therapist who did mine and my mum’s treatment
When my therapist arrived, I had my massage sitting up on the bed — and it was stunning. I loved it. Sadly, there wasn’t time for the foot massage, but lunch and the afternoon game drive were waiting.
Lunchtime and lazy moments
Cloud gazing for Big Kid Summer The Haunting of Maddy Claire a novel written by Simone ST. JamesReading under a tree
Lunch proceeded as expected, with an element of pleasant surprise: it was pizza. A sharing plate was presented, and upon inquiring if additional servings were desired, we readily agreed. As pizza is my preferred dish, I could not decline the opportunity for an extra slice.
Subsequently, we placed a pre-order for our dinner options for that evening, followed by returning to the accommodations for a brief period of rest prior to the next activity.
Afternoon game drive
I changed into warmer clothing in preparation for the evening drive, anticipating a temperature decrease following sunset. The remaining family members assembled in our room, which was nearest to the entrance, and I ensured to use the restroom beforehand, as there are no proper facilities available in the vicinity of the bush. Soon thereafter, our guide Njabula transmitted a radio message.
“All crew, all crew, Njabula is going mobile from Mtemba Lodge.”
Initially, the weather was hot; however, a cool breeze gradually developed as the sun set. Almost immediately, we observed buffalo, followed by additional animals along the route. Njabula sat beside me, pointing out various sights before they were noticed by the others.
We paused to enjoy sundowners as the sky transformed into a vibrant orange over the sprawling bush. The atmosphere was enchanting—serene, tranquil, and remarkably different from the familiarity of home. Glasses clinked with a variety of drinks, ranging from chilled vodka and sparkling Appletiser to refreshing soft drinks, as I fully immersed myself in the moment.
This is the drinks and snacks we have for sundowners
On our return journey, we observed elephants, buffalo, and even a leopard. I found it particularly enjoyable to listen to the rangers’ radio communications regarding other wildlife sightings, which created a sense of being part of an exclusive safari network. As we crossed the stream and approached the lodge signage, it became evident that we were nearing our destination. The staff greeted us with welcoming smiles and provided warm towels, a thoughtful gesture that enhanced our experience.
Buffalo Elephant Sunset
Dinner around the fire pit
That evening, dinner was served outdoors around a fire pit. Initially, I was concerned about my ability to manage, but fortunately, there were appropriate tables and chairs available. I ordered the salmon; however, it contained bones, so my father assisted by cutting it into smaller portions. Due to my autism I’m not a big fan of food being cut up so I didn’t eat the main course which was salmon
Main course which I didn’t eat
Dessert was the best part — a rich chocolate lava cake, warm and gooey on the inside, with a melted center overflowing with decadent chocolate. After pudding, it was straight to bed — another early-morning safari awaited at dawn.
My yummy chocolate lava cake it was delicious
This was even more special as we got to sing happy birthday to the other guests.
Big Day Adventure
An early start but not too early
Today was one of the most exhilarating days of the journey. Although there was no wake-up call at 5 a.m., the morning was not a period of rest. Breakfast was served promptly at 8 a.m., as the group was scheduled to depart at 9 a.m. for a full-day safari in another park.
We had not yet observed any giraffes, which was my primary objective. Conversely, Ruby was focused on spotting lions; her interest is attributed to her reputation as an exceptionally skilled observer of these animals
Breakfast was an exceptional culinary experience. I enjoyed French toast topped with basil cream, caramelized bananas, walnuts, crispy bacon, and a drizzle of maple syrup. It was a remarkable meal. My mother advised me to leave some room for later, and although it was a difficult decision, I did not finish it. Her advice proved to be prudent, as always.
Into the wild
We entered the safari vehicle through a discreet passageway, which eliminated the need for steps and made the process considerably easier for me, and then commenced our journey. Concerns regarding restroom stops were already present. I had attempted to be prudent before departure, but it proved insufficient. By mid-morning, I was experiencing urgent discomfort. Fortunately, lunch was approaching soon. However, before that, I had to nip to the loo. That was an adventure in itself. As I had to go in a shed. However back to the most exciting part of the adventure is:
This was my breakfast which was French Toast
The sightings
The elephant that we saw on our drive This was one of the animals we saw during our safari stay.
The morning was unbelievable:
• Giraffes — finally, my dream come true.
• Elephants strolling calmly through the trees.
• Rhinos grazing in the distance.
• Leopard, sleek and mysterious
All before we had our morning coffee
At our mid-morning coffee stop, we sat near a bird hide with a hive buzzing above us. It reminded me instantly of my grandad, who loves birdwatching. I thought back to our visits to Low Barns Nature Reserve and Granny’s garden — those peaceful moments all came flooding back.
We sipped “bush coffee” (which was basically hot chocolate with a fancy name!) and enjoyed some snacks the staff had brought along — such a lovely touch.
Lunchtime in the bush
Returning to the vehicle, we encountered a “no entry” sign on private property. However, since our safari company held ownership of the park, we proceeded without issue. My brother believed he had observed something noteworthy, but by the time we turned back, it proved to be unremarkable. I was unable to witness the event, as I was preoccupied with questioning our guide. My brother was clearly displeased.
Returning to the vehicle, we encountered a “no entry” sign on private property. However, since our safari company held ownership of the park, we proceeded without issue. My brother believed he had observed something noteworthy, but by the time we turned back, it proved to be unremarkable. I was unable to witness the event, as I was preoccupied with questioning our guide. My brother was clearly displeased.
This was one of the sing posts we saw my little brother Jack thought it was awesome
The lunch was straightforward yet excellent, comprising vegetable wraps, chicken wings, a salad, and a notably sweet, indulgent milk tart for dessert. It was fresh, comforting, and precisely what was needed.
Travel Tip: Pack tissues, hand gel, and a sense of humour — bush toilets aren’t glamorous!
The lion whisperer
The afternoon was quieter, with mostly animals we’d already seen. It was still wonderful, but I thought we’d had our big moment for the day.
Then, the long-anticipated sighting finally occurred.
Ruby then drew our attention to the sighting.
“Lion! Lion! Lion!”
None of us believed her at first — but sure enough, there it was. The lion she’d been hoping for.
The actual lion we spotted so you believe us.
We were over the moon! The excitement in the truck was unreal. We followed the lion for a while, watching it move gracefully through the grass before finally heading back to the lodge.
Back at camp, the lovely staff greeted us with hot towels and cool drinks — their usual warm welcome. Dinner that night was a creamy risotto (the best I’ve ever had), followed by a rich chocolate cake. Then it was straight to bed, ready for our final safari morning.
Starter of salad My risotto that I had for dinner on safari. I had it for dinner last night too This was my chocolate cake I had for dessert it was delicious
What a day — giraffes, elephants, rhinos, leopards, and finally, the lion.
And as for Ruby? Officially crowned The Lion Whisperer.
Day 7- Sunrise, Spa and Safari Magic
Early Morning Magic
The morning began with an early start, as we wanted to make the most of our final full day on safari. After a quick cup of tea, we set off with the aim of returning to the lodge by approximately 10:30 a.m.
Medication ➕ muffins 🟰safari ready!
During the drive, we paused to watch the sunrise, which provided a peaceful setting for my morning coffee and medication. The chef had prepared fresh muffins earlier that morning, so I had one with my medication and another afterwards to help take away the aftertaste.
We later returned to the same hide as the previous day, where I enjoyed another bush coffee. It was just as delicious as I remembered. Since returning home, I have bought a bottle of Amarula in the hope of recreating the flavour, although I am saving that story for a later Cape Town blog post.
Safari sightings
Feeling refreshed and ready to continue, we travelled deeper into the bush for our final morning of wildlife viewing. It was an important opportunity to fully appreciate the safari experience, and the sightings that followed more than met our expectations.
• African buffalo, marking another significant sighting from the Big Five
• Giraffes moving gracefully among the trees
• A diverse range of birdlife, with calls carrying across the grasslands
By the time we returned to camp, our planned 10:30 a.m. breakfast had become more of a late brunch. After such a rewarding morning, the slower pace was a welcome change.
Buffalo we saw on our morning drive
Travel tip It is advisable to carry a small snack or set aside a muffin, as morning safari drives can often last longer than expected.
Spa stories
As breakfast was coming to an end, members of the spa team visited our table with the treatment menu. I was pleased to have the opportunity to book a foot massage, having missed the chance earlier in the trip due to a sunset game drive, and I was determined not to miss it again.
Later, back in our room, I was seated on the couch when the therapists arrived. The treatment was wonderfully relaxing, and while they worked, Mum spoke with them about her own background in beauty therapy.
She had trained at the same college and had once won the title of “Best Therapist in the World”, receiving as her prize a trip to a destination of her choice. That opportunity ultimately led her to a position in Lemnos, Greece, with Mark Warner, where she met my father, who was working there as a water sports instructor.
In many ways, that journey became part of my own story too.
My dad also spotted a de
A feast before farewell
After our treatments, we had a light but delicious lunch: mini Mexican tacos, refreshing broccetto, and a coconut-topped cake. The perfect fuel for our final sunset game drive.
This one felt extra special — a proper goodbye to the wild. As the sun dipped low, we stopped for sundowners and realised we hadn’t ordered dinner. No problem — the lodge had a surprise planned.
That night, we were treated to an incredible Zulu dancing performance
The photo that was captured during the performance it was amazing but loud at the same time
followed by a traditional South African braai. Dinner included:
Tomato soup starter
A sizzling barbecue feast
And rich malva pudding for dessert (shared with Dad — though we were so full we could hardly finish!)
My traditional Malva pudding me and my dad shared but we didn’t finish it as it was too much for us to eat all of it
Travel tip: Consider taking part in any special evening events hosted by the lodge, as these experiences often become some of the best memories ever.
Early to bed
After an evening filled with excellent food and memorable experiences, I was more than ready to rest. I went straight to bed, mindful that the following morning would bring one final early game drive before our journey home.
It was a fitting conclusion to a truly memorable day.
I ended the evening feeling relaxed, content, and deeply grateful for the time I had on safari. It was an unforgettable experience and a experience I will never forget
Day 8 – Farewell to Safari
Bittersweet beginning
This was the day I had been anticipating with mixed emotions, as it marked our departure from the safari experience. The occasion felt deeply bittersweet; I was reluctant for it to end, having treasured every moment and created some truly special family memories.
There was, however, still time for one final game drive, followed by breakfast, which remained an important part of the morning routine.
After our early wake-up call, we enjoyed our morning cups of tea and completed the usual preparations before boarding the safari vehicle. I hoped it would be a memorable final drive and, although I told Njabula there was no pressure though as he did a great job being our family’s guide.
Once-in-a- lifetime spotting
Njabula exceeded all expectations during our final game drive. The morning began with sightings of zebras, followed by an extraordinary encounter: two leopards in conflict. It was a rare and remarkable moment that left everyone in the vehicle captivated. Although I did not fully comprehend the significance of the sighting at the time, I recognised afterwards how privileged I was to witness such an exceptional event. Following the excitement, we paused for a well-earned coffee stop. As this was my last game drive, I chose to enjoy bush coffee one final time, and it was every bit as enjoyable as before.
I will remember Njabula fondly, not only for his warmth and professionalism, but also for his shared enthusiasm for birdwatching.
That final cup of bush coffee felt like a fitting and memorable conclusion to the safari experience.
The hide where we stopped brought back memories of birdwatching with my grandfather at Low Barns Nature Reserve. Although we were thousands of miles from home, the setting felt unexpectedly familiar and comforting, reconnecting me with treasured memories from childhood.
It was a reflective moment that added emotional depth to an already unforgettable
The Hunt for Cheetahs
Nothing to see here just a couple of cheetahs fighting for their lives.
Following our coffee stop, we continued the drive with the hope of locating cheetahs. Although we were not fortunate enough to see them, there were clear indications that they had recently been in the area. Their presence was suggested not by movement or tracks this time, but by a distinctive scent carried through the bush.
Interestingly, the scent was surprisingly similar to popcorn, which made the experience both unusual and memorable. It was a striking reminder that wildlife encounters are not always visual; sometimes the surrounding environment offers its own subtle evidence of animals nearby.
Even without a confirmed sighting, the strength of the smell created a sense of anticipation and mystery. It gave us the impression that the cheetahs may have been close, hidden somewhere beyond view in the surrounding landscape.
Although the cheetahs remained unseen, the moment added another fascinating layer to the final safari drive and demonstrated how rich and a sensory experience the bush can be for me who has autism so I would highly recommend it. If you have the opportunity to do safari go for it!!! It’s the best experience ever.
Brunch and too much sugar for the morning adventure
Sometimes as an autistic individual, I sometimes just have the food even though I know it’s bad for me.
On our return to camp, breakfast was ready and waiting. As we arrived later than planned—closer to 11:00 a.m. rather than the scheduled 10:30 a.m.—the meal felt more like brunch than breakfast.
I chose French toast, although I later regretted the decision when I began to feel unwell during the journey home.
The staff also provided an additional cold breakfast option, which included pancakes. Everyone was quick to take advantage of the unexpected treat, and Mum kindly managed to collect one for me. I enjoyed mine with chocolate sauce and, although I was tempted to have a second, I decided that one was enough given the amount of sugar already involved.
The chocolate pancakes were a memorable and enjoyable final treat before departure.
Afterwards, we returned to our rooms to pack our belongings and prepare to leave the lodge.
Farewell at the lodge
Leaving the lodge was an emotional moment. While we waited for Njabula to transport us to the gate, we offered sweets and chocolates to the staff as a small gesture of appreciation for the excellent care and hospitality they had shown us throughout our stay.
I also signed the guest book, reflecting on the wonderful family memories we had created during our time there. Before departing, I purchased a few souvenirs, including a work bag and a beautifully scented soap—the same fragrance used in the lodge bathroom, which now has a place in my own.
Before beginning the hour journey to the gate, I made one final restroom stop.
The last safari moments
The journey away from the lodge was deeply bittersweet. I tried to remain composed, but once we reached the gate, the emotion of leaving became overwhelming.
Even as we departed, the safari experience offered us a few final memorable moments:
The Skull which I found disgusting I am not going to lie.
• A skull that Jack was intrigued by and would have liked to take home, although it would likely have raised concerns at airport security.
• A black panther snake crossing the road, which caused a noticeable reaction from Njabula, who was clearly uncomfortable around snakes.
• Railway tracks marking the edge of the reserve and signalling the transition back towards everyday life beyond the wilderness.
Before continuing by car, I made one final restroom stop, although the flickering light made it a less comfortable experience than I had hoped.
The Jouney Back
Shortly after leaving the gate, we saw a dung beetle rolling along the road, which Jack found particularly exciting. Although the occupants of the other vehicle were less pleased that we had stopped, it felt like a fitting final wildlife moment before leaving the reserve.
We followed an alternative route recommended by the lodge staff, which was expected to be less uneven. However, once we reached the gravel sections, the surface was still very noticeable, both in how it felt and how it sounded.
As the journey continued, the amount of sugar I had consumed earlier began to affect me. I started to feel increasingly unwell and was eventually sick. Mum moved to the back seat to look after me, and afterwards I felt considerably better.
When it was time to take my emergency medication, I had it with half of a toasted sandwich that the lodge had packed for the journey. Unfortunately, the fried bread did not sit well with me either. By the time we reached Durban, I was definitely ready for the journey to come to an end.
Back in Durban
Kitchen area and TVSecret stash of teabags, sachets of coffee and sugar even though we don’t take sugar in our hot drinks because we are sweet enough especially me. This is the minbar but I don’t know if you got it for free so just be careful in case you don’t as it all adds up.This was the bed that me and my sister shared.Desk/dressing table where I had my meals and did some of my wordsearch.Sink in bathroomBath in bathroom
Upon arrival, we adjusted the room arrangements, and I shared a room with Daisy on this occasion. The room also included a desk, which proved particularly useful for enjoying a cup of tea and a rusk without creating unnecessary mess.
Dinner was simple yet thoroughly enjoyable: tomato soup served with cheesy bruschetta, which was pleasantly reminiscent of a margherita pizza. Afterwards, I went straight to bed, feeling exhausted after such a long and emotional day.
My dinner I had room service
Farewell to the safari experience, and thank you for the extraordinary memories. It had been a chapter filled with remarkable wildlife encounters, quiet moments of reflection, generous hospitality, and precious time spent together as a family. Although leaving was difficult, I felt deeply grateful for everything the safari had given us: the unforgettable sights, the shared laughter, the stillness of the bush, and the sense of wonder that stayed with me long after we had returned to Durban.
Pictures of memories and adventures being made with crocodiles
A slow start
I was feeling unwell upon waking, so we decided to proceed cautiously and limit our activities to visiting Croc World today. My teenage brother was discreetly relieved, as he is not naturally inclined to early mornings.
We had breakfast at approximately ten o’clock, which I considered somewhat late. I ordered an omelette with ham, feta cheese, and caramelized onions—an exceptionally well-balanced combination. The flavors were salty, creamy, and sweet, creating an experience that could only be described as exceptional. The accompanying toast was unnecessary; I typically do not eat it at home and decided to not have the toast
Gearing up
At the villa, I organized my medications, consumed a. Drink with me and confirmed that my wheelchair was fully charged. Additionally, my mother verified that I had packed everything necessary.
Subsequently, we arranged to pick up Auntie Debbie, her son, and his acquaintance Kate, who joined us for the morning prior to heading to their respective workplaces. They brought their own vehicle to allow for flexibility in departure times. Nonetheless, Auntie Debbie traveled with us in the vehicle.
Snakes and goats
Croc World was not entirely accessible due to uneven terrain and rough paths; however, my wheelchair has previously managed Finnish forests, so navigating South Africa was feasible.
We rushed over to the snake-handling session, just in time for the scheduled activities. Every participant was given the opportunity to participate, including my sister—who has a significant fear of snakes—yet she was able to hold one. I was very proud of her.
The next animals were the goats. My sister has long desired to have one as a pet, and she was very enthusiastic. However, I was less impressed. My mother assured me that the goats would not approach me, yet one unexpectedly jumped onto my knee.
To complicate matters, the animal ingested our map and receipt. Fortunately, we had spare copies. Typical goat.
Travel Tip: Always keep a spare map or download a digital copy — you never know when a goat might take an interest in the map.
Facing the crocodile’s
We grabbed lunch — a panini, chips, and a bit of Dad’s salad for me — before heading to the croc enclosure for the 3 p.m. session. This was the big moment: holding a crocodile.
During my visit to Florida, I chickened out, but this occasion, I successfully handled a juvenile crocodile myself. The handler even mentioned the possibility of naming one after me. My mother was visibly proud and remarked, “You have a crocodile named after you—how impressive is that?”
I joked, “Bet they didn’t get the spelling right.” Still counts, though.
We also met Henry, a crocodile that’s 124 years old, making him one of the oldest known crocodiles alive today. Mum recalls seeing him during a school trip when she was a young girl in the 1950s. Can you imagine? School trips in the UK back then were rarely as extraordinary as this.
Certainly. Here is the revised text in a professional tone suitable for a business or academic setting:
Afterward, I visited the gift shop, where I purchased a mug, as it is customary to acquire multiple mugs. Additionally, we informed the cashier about the details of ‘my crocodile.” Auntie Debbie generously provided beverages for everyone, and I remained energized with my Coke Zero during the return journey.
Dinner at Ocean Basket
After a quick rest back at the villa, we got ready for dinner. Tonight’s choice: Ocean Basket, a South African seafood chain Mum and Dad had first tried in Cyprus.
We collected Debbie and her husband Elle, who guided us through Galleria Mall to the restaurant. The meal began with dough balls accompanied by dips, which were exceptionally good. Subsequently, I ordered the fish platter with rice. Although it arrived somewhat cold, it remained flavorful. My mother explained that Ocean Basket is primarily a fast-food seafood restaurant rather than a fine dining establishment, which is an accurate characterization.
We subsequently completed the drop-off of Debbie and Elle at their residences, then returned to the hotel to rest. Rest was necessary, as the following day involved a three-and-a-half-hour journey to the safari.
I woke up early, knowing it was going to be a busy day full of family, food, and memories. Mum had been up even earlier (as always!) and caught a stunning sunrise over Durban while the rest of us were still asleep.
Upon waking, we were startled to find monkeys awaiting us on the balcony. These animals are known to seize any objects within reach, prompting us to clear the area promptly. Nevertheless, we could not resist offering them some leftover bananas, which they gratefully accepted.
Breakfast was served at the elegant lakeside restaurant, where I ordered fluffy pancakes topped with freshly squeezed lemon zest, a sprinkle of cinnamon sugar, and meticulously arranged ripe strawberries. The presentation was both colorful and inviting, setting an inviting tone for the day ahead filled with important activities.
💡 Travel Tip: It is advisable not to leave food unattended on your balcony in Durban, as local wildlife such as monkeys may seize the opportunity to access it.
🌳 Heading to the Nature Reserve
By 11:15, we had prepared to depart, collecting the necessary individuals and food supplies along the way. It was essential to arrive at the entrance of the nature reserve by noon to meet my Uncle Swaddle, who had offered to guide us in order to prevent us from becoming disoriented.
When we got there, he opened the car door with a grin and said:
“Welcome to Africa, kids.”
This is a quote I’ll never forget.
Such experiences prompted me to reflect on the advantages of living in the United Kingdom, where tap water is potable and free, there are no load-shedding interruptions, and everyday commodities are relatively inexpensive for residents, although they may be costly for the local population in South Africa. The journey to the destination was extraordinary—initially passing an industrial estate and then suddenly entering the serene greenery of a nature reserve.
🔥 A Family Reunion & the Braai
When we arrived, we were welcomed with open arms by family we hadn’t seen in years. I settled onto a little bench with some drinks and my phone while the adults caught up and Uncle Swaddle got the braai going — complete with plenty of South African banter.
Soon it was time to eat. Because benches are tricky for my back, we set a chair at the end of the table for me. Mum dished me up a plate of food — a boerewors roll and pasta salad — and I even went back for seconds of that amazing pasta salad!
Making memories that we will all the family will cherish forever
After more chatting, Auntie Katy brought out ice cream from the freezer box, while doughnuts appeared too. I went for a milk tart doughnut — sweet, creamy, and comforting as the air started to cool.
I was due my emergency meds, which made dessert a bit less enjoyable (the realities of travelling with medical conditions). Thankfully, by the time I finished, Auntie Debbie had hot drinks ready and passed me a coffee while everyone started packing up ready to go.
Saying goodbye
While Mum and Auntie Debbie were preparing the vehicles, Father discussed the upcoming safari expedition, emphasizing the importance of carrying a spare tyre as a precautionary measure. Fortunately, it was not needed.
Prior to departure, I utilized the restroom facilities, which is advisable before extended journeys in South Africa due to the unpredictable availability of toilet breaks. Subsequently, I organized a group photograph with all present. After several adjustments and retakes, we successfully included everyone. This photograph serves as a cherished memory, particularly since it may have been the first and last occasion on which I saw some of those relatives.
The journey back to the villa was quiet, as we were all fatigued after a demanding day. Upon arrival, we ordered room service, dined together, and subsequently retired for the evening.
We extended our sleep period, taking advantage of the holiday. By the time we descended for breakfast, it was approximately 10:30. However, accessing the restaurant proved challenging, as it was situated on an elevated area requiring navigating a significant incline, numerous flights of stairs, and additional steps upon reaching the summit. This location was not particularly accessible.
I was undoubtedly eager for a beverage upon our arrival. The entrance resembled a spa reception—bright, white, and inviting—featuring a lounge and bar area that evoked the ambiance of the Manor House Hotel and Spa back home
For breakfast, I attempted the chili scrambled eggs. The dish was so well-received that my entire family quickly expressed regret over their previous choices, unanimously indicating their intention to order it on future occasions.
After breakfast, we returned to the villa to prepare for our visit to uShaka Marine World, Durban’s renowned aquarium.
Travel tip: If accessibility is a priority, it is advisable to verify beforehand whether restaurants in South Africa are accessible, as many are situated on hilly terrain with numerous stairs.
🐠 Off to uShaka Marine World
On the walk there, I started feeling unwell — I needed the loo, but nothing happened, and then I suddenly got shaky and very thirsty. Luckily, Mum had packed my emergency chocolate bar (thanks to my sister’s stash!) and I took my regular meds too. Once I’d eaten and had a drink, I felt well enough to carry on.
Within the aquarium, I appreciated the opportunity to observe marine life at close proximity. Typically, such an experience would involve underwater activities such as scuba diving or shark cage diving, neither of which I am able to participate in. Therefore, this served as an ideal alternative.
Inside the aquarium, I loved being able to get up close to the marine life. Normally, that kind of experience would mean scuba diving or shark cage diving — neither of which I can do — so this was the perfect alternative.
🍟 A Quick Lunch Stop
The wrap I ordered turned out disappointingly tiny — they’d run out of the normal size — but the large fries made up for it. Mum was right: sometimes quick and easy really is best, especially when you’re not feeling 100%.
💡 Travel Tip: Individuals with health conditions should not feel guilty about choosing fast food options. Often, such selections are the most practical means to support rest.
🚗 Dropping Off My Cousin
On the way back, we dropped off my cousin Arron and collected the medicines Auntie Debbie had kindly picked up from the pharmacy. Mum also asked her to grab some mooty (South African slang for medicine) for my bladder, plus a capsule for thrush.
I did not pack any, believing they would not be necessary; however, travel often demonstrates otherwise.
When my mother and I read the capsule instructions—”Do not chew”—I experienced a moment of concern. I find it difficult to swallow tablets; however, my mother had recently instructed me on how to take them with yoghurt. Fortunately, we had some readily available, and the method proved to be effective
🌙 Early Night
By the time we got home, I went straight to bed. I don’t even think I had dinner — I just wasn’t up to it. Still, I could happily tick uShaka Marine World off my list.
Occasionally, such days serve as a reminder that we are indeed an ordinary family, even during holidays.
16th of July 2025 ✈️ Travel Day: Off to South Africa!
Today marked a significant milestone; after weeks of preparation, it was finally time to depart for South Africa. I awakened feeling a sense of anticipation, fully aware that I would be engaged in a month-long period of exploration.
Morning Prep & Brunch
I arose early, approximately at nine o’clock, prior to the arrival of my support worker who assisted me in preparing. There was a palpable sense of anticipation, which made it difficult to remain still.
We attended a preparatory breakfast at the Quarry Tea House in Hunwick, where I consumed a substantial sausage butty with a pot of tea. By eleven o’clock, I felt adequately energized and prepared to proceed.
Sausage sandwhich with tomato sauce
After returning home, I spent an hour relaxing, took my medication, and prepared an additional cup of tea to soothe my nerves before the taxi arrived. The driver arrived early—at 12:45—prompting a brief period of last-minute packing, bathroom breaks, and making sure nothing was overlooked. Subsequently, I proceeded to the minibus for the two-hour journey to Manchester.
Tip: It is advisable to schedule a sufficient interval for a break and restroom visit prior to embarking on an extended travel day, as this contributes to a more composed and seamless journey.
Road Trip Vibes
On our return from the Tea House, my father advised us to refrain from using screens to prevent motion sickness. Some of us were not entirely in agreement with this suggestion; therefore, we reached a compromise by activating the anti-sickness feature on our devices. I believe this measure was effective.
Most of the drive was occupied with discussions regarding our anticipated activities and sights in South Africa. At one point, my father turned to my mother and remarked, “I expect it will feel unusual visiting your former residence and school, will it not?” The remaining individuals appeared puzzled until my father chuckled and said, “Keep up, everyone,” after which the realization dawned on us. This was followed by a collective acknowledgment.
💡 Tip: Extended family journeys provide an ideal opportunity for engaging in conversation or sharing private jokes that may require time to be fully appreciated.
Airport Adventures
We arrived at Manchester Airport ahead of schedule, successfully avoiding traffic delays. However, we encountered a delay in checking in, as we arrived earlier than permitted. Since our flight was scheduled for a late lunch, we quickly became hungry. The solution was to visit Greggs, where I purchased a traditional sausage roll and a cup of tea, following my earlier decaffeinated coffee.
Sausage rollEnglish Breakfast tea
Waiting at Greggs for a couple of hours was not ideal; however, we were eventually able to drop off our bags. By that time, I developed a headache, likely due to the crowd and boredom, but at least we were finally making progress. Security procedures were stressful; I had to remove my shoes, and my medication was inspected because I carried a 500ml bottle of paracetamol. Once through security, once I got through I began to relax a bit more as I knew security was out of the way because I get really anxious about being searched but know how important it is.
Tip: If it is necessary to carry medication, it should be kept in its original packaging and be prepared for security inspection.
First Lounge Experience (Sort Of)
My first experience in an airport lounge was ultimately disappointing. We arrived shortly before it was scheduled to close, resulting in limited food options and a hurried atmosphere. As I was not particularly hungry, I only consumed some crisps, a Diet Coke, and a remaining slice of my sister’s pizza.
Nevertheless, we made the most of the situation. My father, in particular, seemed to enjoy it — though I will not disclose that to him. Prior to our departure, I ensured I used the restroom before my siblings and I visited the dutyshops. I purchased a Monopoly card game and sampled some perfume, which served as suitable distractions before the gate opened.
Tip: Do not depend on lounges for your primary meal. If you arrive late, food options may be limited; therefore, it is advisable to carry snacks as a precaution.
Boarding Drama & Economy Life
When it was time to board, the flight was delayed, and I was unable to perform my usual pre-flight restroom visit, which caused me some anxiety. Fortunately, once aboard the aircraft, I was able to use the restroom before takeoff, thereby alleviating my concerns.
Remember to always pay attention to the pre-flight briefing, as it is brief yet highly important
We flew economy, since upgrading would’ve cost a jaw-dropping £30,000! We did try at check-in and even onboard, but no luck. My sister offered to sacrifice business class for us, but Mum and Dad insisted we stick together. So, economy it was—slumming it, but together.
Because I need to pre-board, plus with the delay, we had about an hour before take-off. I passed the time scrolling social media and squeezing in a few last lives on my games before buckling up and choosing my first in-flight movie.
Tip If you need pre-boarding due to disability, let the airline know in advance—they’ll usually accommodate you.
Take-Off & In-Flight Fun
I still hold Mum’s hand during take-off and landing—something I’ve never done without her. Maybe one day I’ll try it alone, but for now, it’s my little comfort ritual.
Once we were in the air, I relaxed into the journey: • 🎥 Watched movies • 📖 Read Enemy for a Brain by Zara Beth (highly recommend—she’s an incredible disability advocate and content creator) • 🍽️ Ate dinner (chicken and veg, though the chicken was tricky since I don’t like my food being cut up)
I was so happy I got to watch the new Bridget Jones movie I would highly recommend Zara Beth YouTube channel she Tourette’s syndrome as well as other conditions too.View from the plane
Subsequently, I attempted to sleep; however, my sister Daisy was unwell, prompting my mother to exchange seats with my father. I had my father seated beside me for the night, and although I did not obtain sufficient rest, I managed to doze here and there
Tip: Please bring your own travel-friendly snacks or cutlery if you have specific preferences regarding your eating habits, as this can help reduce stress associated with in-flight meal.
Breakfast & Arrival in Dubai
When the breakfast trolley arrived, my father instructed me to return to sleep since it was early in the morning. However, I chose not to adhere to this suggestion. I consumed a muffin and a cup of tea to prepare myself for landing.
I have a strong appreciation for Monopoly, and given that York is nearby, I decided to purchase a ticket. I am pleased with this decision, as it resulted in an enjoyable day.
Approximately forty-five minutes later, we arrived at York train station, where a short walk led us to the starting point. However, this was later changed to a different starting location, which was quite inconvenient. This was particularly frustrating for my support worker, who was unaware of the change because she was not a member of the Facebook group.
Upon arriving at the starting point, everyone expressed a desire to obtain stamps for last year’s cup. This experience inspired me to participate in the Rebel Cup 2025, despite my lack of enthusiasm for this year’s theme, which centers around a Greek Goddess. Interested in participating, I purchased a ticket. I then located my teammates, including my acquaintance Laura Steel, Isla Davies, and her mother. We were required to stand in a line ordered by team number, from smallest to largest; I was assigned to team 13, which is considered an unlucky number by some. When I was unable to find my teammates, I approached the Chief Rebel. Surprisingly, Laura and the rest of my team appeared shortly thereafter, just as I was speaking with Charly. This presented an opportunity for me to request a photograph with her, which I postponed until everyone had departed. I then initiated the game, as another member of my group wished to speak with her about camp.
At approximately 11 a.m., we initiated a deliberate exploration of the York city centre. Our goal was to successfully complete the predetermined task. Accompanying us were two electric wheelchairs, an individual who is non-verbal, a novice participant, and a support worker who was notably unhelpful, aside from capturing photographs of the group. Given the circumstances, we believed there was a reasonable chance of success, which is why I employed artificial intelligence for guidance, as the support worker declined to provide directions. Fortunately, my colleague Laura was present to assist. I experienced significant anxiety due to my lack of navigational knowledge; however, I was able to navigate successfully. We remained entirely on foot, as one of our members preferred not to utilise public transportation. I felt disappointed, as I had always hoped to visit a racecourse, even if only to photograph the exterior of the venue.
Places we found
The York Mining Museum was visited at 11:20am This location was the easiest to access, as it was situated directly across from the starting point. The designated color for this site was green.
Blue Boar, established before 2015, was once rated the premier pub and was subsequently featured on the York Monopoly Board, which is designated in blue.
Jorvik Viking Centre at 11:42 offers an engaging experience suitable for all members of the family or groups with your Rebrllion
The most unusual street name in York—successfully completed an additional challenge that was enjoyable.
The Merchant Adventurers’ Hall, dating from the 1350s, is a timber-framed structure that historically served as a meeting place for wholesale traders. Currently, it functions as a museum with exhibits and features a café. It is an excellent site for those interested in history or local heritage.
Hen do- lucky someone in my team is sporting a hen do because I’m blind as a bat. I have a visual impairment which means I can’t see very well it’s called nystagmus.
York Chocolate Story at 12:07pm was an exceptional venue to visit. I wish we had the opportunity to explore it on that day; however, we were too focused on our game to participate in sampling chocolates. Despite this, it was something I genuinely wished to have had
Snickeway In 12-15pm- It’s renowned for its genuine ale, live musical performances, and enjoyable atmosphere.
Monk bar 12:27– Monk Bar is the largest and most highly decorated bars and it started in the 14th century. As well as this we got a Selfie with Davina at Monk Bar!
Cos playing the heads mounted on spikes along the city wall served as a grim warning. Due to this I let my fellow teammates , Laura and Isla captured an amusing photograph because I was unable to join them.
Met detective goose- AKA Charly, I had an extremely enjoyable experience as I had the opportunity to meet Charly in person. She kindly shared some insightful hints and tips about the best places to visit next. Afterwards, we paused our activities to take a memorable photo with Detective Goose.
During a lunchtime stop at a pub, I was disappointed when my colleagues only desired to consume a few drinks. Consequently, I had to eat my packed lunch outdoors, which was disappointing as I had hoped to dine with them. My friend kindly offered to purchase a drink for me from the bar, but my support worker declined, stating that I would prefer to get the drink myself.
Treasurer’s House 14:00pm- In the shadow of York Minster, right in the heart of the city, Treasurer’s House is a unique place to visit. It’s a National Trust property. I loved going over the bumps here me and Isla mum had and epic time on the cobbles that was the funniest part of the day
York letters 14:06 – A photograph should be taken here if you plan to spend a day in York.
The Conistene statue, unveiled in 1998, was commissioned by the York Civic Trust and designed by the renowned sculptor Philip Jackson. It is situated on Minster Yard, directly outside York Minster, serving as a prominent piece of public art that complements the historic cathedral. My colleague, Isla, demonstrated commendable teamwork and proactively contributed to the completion of this project.
The Fat Badger, located within the historic walls of the establishment, features York’s premier beer garden. It is therefore evident why it is regarded as one of the most esteemed inns in Yorkshire in the city itself.
Bootman Bar at 14:29 is located at the northern entrance to York. Bootham constitutes the oldest of the city’s four defensive bastions, featuring stones that date back to the eleventh century.
It is surprising to discover that in York, one might find oneself embracing a teddy bear, which was unexpected.
York Art Gallery 14:38- this was a toilet stop and a pit spot. Tip for people in future Rebel games go to the places that have a public toilet inside just saying.
We determined that engaging in welly wanging was not advisable due to the presence of numerous individuals in the vicinity. I am pleased to inform you that it has been included in the “Best of the Rebel Cup” annual badge syllabus, for which a shoe was provided.
Guido Fawkes, born in 1570 at this exact location adjacent to York Minster, would never have anticipated that his family residence would later become one of York’s most renowned inns. This venue offers an excellent alternative for those who prefer to avoid fireworks on Bonfire Night.
Ye Olde Starre Inn, located in York, is a historically significant establishment and is designated as a Grade II listed building, with origins purportedly dating to 1644—the year of the siege of York by the Roundheads. This inn holds the distinction of possessing the longest continuous license of any pub in York and asserts to be the oldest continually licensed pub within the city.
Ye Olde Starre Inn, located in York, is a historically significant establishment and is designated as a Grade II listed building, with origins purportedly dating to 1644—the year of the siege of York by the Roundheads. This inn holds the distinction of possessing the longest continuous license of any pub in York and asserts to be the oldest continually licensed pub within the city.
Kings arms 15:59- The Kings Arms is a pub situated alongside the River Ouse in the city centre of York, in the United Kingdom
The location of Dick Turpin’s grave at 16.23 was accessible only to two individuals, as the site was not wheelchair accessible. I encountered difficulty reaching the site due to these accessibility limitations.
The Barbican 16:32, is the largest entertainment venue in York. It hosts major touring concerts, comedy shows, sporting events, and corporate functions.
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Lunchtime break time pit stop in a pub
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